Good thing most of you probably live on your own. Unfortunately, I am still in college and spend summer at my family's house. If there is one thing I cannot stand with my family, it is people touching my stuff.

My brother, a non-chalant ENFP (age 19), takes and wears my underwear, nice expensive shirts, and socks. He wears them to other people's houses, where somehow they get lost, and a few weeks later I find someone else wearing my clothing (I know it is my clothing and not their own store bought brand). He and his friends and other people also leave trash and wrappers in my car, and cover it up by stuffing it in my seats. I ask before hand to not leave stuff in my car, but it always fails to register. Even I ask sometimes, did you leave trash, people will do one of two things, (1) throw it out the window on the road, or (2) lie and then I pull out the trash I saw them stuff in the seat and see them lie again in my face.

I do not know if it is just me or other INFJs, but do you get pissed off when people disrespect your property blantantly, in front of your face sometimes? This should not fly with anyone, or at least I hope not.

No wonder people think I am grumpy all the time.