One of my best best friends is an ENFP and I completely agree with this:
"According to personalitypage.com, INFJ + ENFP = natural partnership. I call it intense intimacy. Both share the same idealistic and romantic views. The INFJ with strong Judging tendencies will keep the ENFP focused. Meanwhile, the ENFP will drag the INFJ out of their shells to enjoy life spontaneously.

This is just my personal view, but ENFP FTW. I believe intuition coupled with feeling will keep many NFs dedicated to their relationships. "

However- I think this type of relationship tends to turn into a parent/child role or situation. In fact being called on to make the decisions, and trying to keep the ENFP focused frustrates me. Also ENFP types are very engaged with everyone and this can make the INFJ feel unappreciated and sometimes not very unique or special to the ENFP. I also get easily frustrated with tardiness, I find it completely disrespectful and she is always late and sometimes doesn't show up, she has about 150+ close friends and has them over to her home regularly which I find invasive. I love her dearly though and I love to travel with her and sit in coffee shops and dream, analyze and sometimes cuddle. She's a great cuddler and she is genuine with her affection.
So I think and ENFP makes a great best friend but for me, not a right fit for a partner.

ESxx I can't deal with well. Communication and understanding is a major issue and the majority of the time I will avoid the conflict and try to communicate in ways to meet their understanding and needs and that feels very empty and not being true to myself. I guess if I met an ESTJ that didn't try to dominate everything with their mundane way of looking at things and could open their minds to wanting to see something a different way and respected that, then maybe I could possibly slightly entertain a relationship with one. I can't hardly be friends with them to be honest and most seem to be Type A personalities and they kinda stress me out. Anyways ESxx is NOT for me. My dad is an ESTP and I'm in business school with a lot of ESxx types. They leave me cold. Just my opinion.

Cloud,

You are looking at some shitty websites.

INFJ+ESTP=best. I was starting to accept the possibility that ENTP was also quite suitable. However, after being around some ENTP women (very little experience), all the intuition is great at first, but then it NEVER ENDS. It gets to a point that is so boring.

ENFPs are awesome nice people, but like Shif said, their lack of planning and always introducing me to people I do not know nor care to know is irritable. They tend to be followers and go with the crowd, which I cannot stand.

ESTJs will not work simply because two judgers can't ever relax together and be themselves. An ESTJ would always put me on edge more so than I already am.

ESTPs are the best for INFJs, their spontaneity but with a good detailed memory will keep them from always being late and floaty. They are loyal as dogs and work their asses off and definitely do not care what people think about them. I love that.

They are often HILARIOUS and I try to use some of their humor (I have had both good and bad results).

**"They appear to be submissive and open and quiet, and all the guys want to get to know them"**

Deedush, I like that you put in 'APPEAR' submissive, open and quiet, LOL!
I am usually open and almost always 'appear' calm and go with the flow (submissive isn't really in my vocabulary though) but the whole calm and quiet thing 'used to be' 95% on the outside and only a little true on the inside. Now, I'm pretty calm all around - I so love this aging process - but inside the mind is always watching, thinking and processing.

About the INFJ's looking good I think it may have something to do with the INFJ desire to listen deeply, and connect at a deeper level with another (this sometimes confused others who are only used to this level in intimate relationships). Also, active listening can sometimes appear to others that one is listening because they are lost and naive...kicking in their desire to protect the 'naive waif.'

Being a female INFJ (or at least my brand) I equate with Kung Fu's drunken style and Colombo. If you appear vulnerable they will never know that your are iron wrapped in cotton and so you get to slip through the world with little interference - yet use the iron if need be.
[Drunken Style is a great way to confuse multiple opponents. You move in ways that they are not prepared for and it all looks accidental as you are "supposedly" drunk and not of sound mind]

Applies for a friend (male) I had who was INFJ. I was really surprised when he told me...had no idea of the F (I'm sure you learn to hide it). He seemed kind of cold but when he had a panic attack he came and laid his head in my lap and was like SO grateful that I even cared enough to listen. Then he thought he had a thing for me after that, but really just because I guess he didn't get that kind of caring very much. It just seemed normal to me to be there for someone who's freaking out.