I can definitely relate to your discomfort. I worked in a life insurance company for 2 years and started to feel like my soul was dying! I had to get out of that situation. I went back to school to finish my Anthropology degree, and I think for my master's I will end up with Public Policy. Politics of course has many of the same issues, but I feel that with a strong sense of what it SHOULD be like, I can make a difference. A la Barack Obama, but of course on a much much smaller scale.

I change my mind a lot, also. I think you are right that the INFJ preference toward future possibilities keeps us looking for better opportunities everywhere. I think this creates a more fulfilling path to success, even if it's not a straight one!

One more thing I thought of. I read that INFJs (and I believe INFPs too) usually need people-centered careers to feel satisfied that they are contributing. Maybe that will help. :-)

I feel you. I just left the military after nine years. Pay and benefits and travel were great, but deployments sucked the life out of my friends, and I looked at them and went, "Gotta go." So now I'm a full time grad student studying Writing.

I know it's cliche, but do what you love. For me it's: traveling, the arts, movies, screenwriting, writing in general, music. Anything liberal arts related, virtually.

I'm still figuring out what I want to do when I grow up, but I do know I want to do it in New Zealand or somewhere overseas. If you do consider going back to school and want to entertain jobs overseas, look up www.BUNAC.com, Transitions Abroad, Work Abroad, Teach abroad. Teaching English as a Foreign Language. Somehow TEFL overseas just appeals to me because there is a big demand for English with global businesses and things. TEFL certifications can be pricy but worthwhile.

I also thought about working fro STA (Student Travel Assosciation). Essentially you're a travel agent for college students wanting to do a study abroad program. I also thought about film and other things. Those a really competitve to get into, as I've discovered.

Along with my screenwriting class, i took an on-camera acting course for fun, and it's helped loads with public speaking and other things.

So I say, Dude, it's out there for you. Go for it. Since you're a geophysics major, you may want to consider a job in New Zealand where environmentalism is HUUUUGE! I visited the place once and never wanted to return. Go onto a site called seek.co.nz. It's the most popular New Zealand jobs search engine, and they're predominately upfront about pay scale. Remember it's in NZ dollars which is slightly weaker than the US dollar, but cost of living is cheaper there. And kiwis are cool people.